Wanted!!! An American President!!

This is election year. I always vote, even if I'm not impressed with all the people that are nominated for office. I know presidents are just men who we choose because we think they will best serve us and our country.

The trouble is most of them do not believe that they are a servant of the United States. They want what they want and they almost become dictators. Instead of seeking the best for America and looking to God for wisdom and guidance, they think what will best serve them and their purpose.

 

I was reading about John Adams, the second president of the United States. He had 12 qualities that are almost impossible to find in the men that are in office today and that are seeking nomination.

 

 This article was written by Mike Myatt, a leadership adviser to Fortune 500.

 

The following list contains 12 qualities that make John Adams a great man, a great leader, and a great example we should all strive to emulate:

1. He valued education- Adams began his education at Harvard when he was fifteen. Here, he learned to learn and he never stopped learning. He stressed education to his children and played a large role in their learning.
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He strove for a good reputation- As a young lawyer, Adams knew he would get nowhere without a good reputation. He therefore set out to become known in Boston for all the right reasons. He became well known in Boston as a good lawyer, but as you’ll see later, he wasn’t ready to compromise his principles in the name of maintaining a good reputation.
3. He loved his wife- There is perhaps no greater love story than that of John and Abigail Adams. Abigail was his love, his mentor, his confidant, and he shared everything with her. His marriage with Abigail is perhaps the single greatest factor in his success as a leader. He, as every leader should do, always sought council from others. But his most valued counsel just happened to be his best friend and spouse. Adams never operated in a bubble and neither should you.
4. He fought for what was right- Adams, always mindful of his reputation, knew that when he agreed to defend the British soldiers involved in the Boston Massacre, his reputation would be ruined, as the British were hated in Boston. But he knew it was the right thing to do. It was during the trial that Adams famously said, “Facts are stubborn things.” What I admire about Adams is that he, more than anyone, feared having his reputation tarnished, but he did not flinch when he was stuck between doing the right thing and maintaining his reputation.
5. He was a great communicator- It’s simply impossible to be a great leader without being a great communicator. Like his father, John Adams originally wanted to be a farmer. But when he saw the power of communication, he set out to become a great writer and speaker. He read books, essays, and poetry and worked his whole life to become an orator of the same magnitude as Cicero or Demosthenes.
6. He saw his shortcomings and recruited others to fill in the gaps- Nobody is perfect, nor is anyone the perfect person for every situation. John Adams had no qualms admitting he was not the right person for a job. And when he found himself in a situation where he felt inadequate, he did one of two things: recommend someone else, and if that was impossible, he’d buckle down, learn what he had to, and then work diligently to achieve the desired outcome.
7. He recognized talent- The ability to see ability in others is absolutely essential to a leader. This is perhaps where Adams shined the brightest. He was the first to submit George Washington’s name for general of the Continental Army, a post being clamored for by many. And as if that were not enough, he recruited the pen of Thomas Jefferson to draft the Declaration of Independence and the wisdom of Benjamin Franklin to help edit it.
8. He was brave in the face of physical danger- I debated whether or not to include this as many will never face a situation of great physical danger, but I decided to as many recent news stories revolve around violence, disasters, and bullying. These stories are full of people who risked their safety to save others, as well as those who stood idly by doing nothing. Leaders should always stand up for others and exhibit courage in the face of danger. Adams was no stranger to danger. On one of his voyages across the Atlantic, a British warship attacked his vessel, and Adams didn’t hesitate to grab a rifle to do his part in defending it. The ship’s captain had to order Adams below decks to get him out of the fray.
9. He had unwavering integrity- Adams unwavering integrity stands apart when contrasted to the very publicly documented failings of so many of our leaders today. There is no evidence of Adams ever being unfaithful to Abigail while spending years in Europe away from her. He was also known for keeping detailed reports of all his expenditures while overseas on congressional money when many of his contemporaries did not. Many people disliked Adams for his political views, but they never could say that he was not a man of integrity.
10. He had perseverance- As mentioned before, Adams readily admitted when he was unfit for a job. This was especially true while in France and Holland, serving as an emissary. He was staunchly patriotic and unashamed of his New England ways, which ruffled more than a few French and Dutch feathers. He was new to being a diplomat and found it tiring and ill suited for him. But he pressed on. He pressed on for America and after securing a substantial loan from the Dutch government he commented to Abigail that he’d accomplished this, not out of skill that others did not possess, but out of shear perseverance.
11. He could see the big picture- Many of the Founders commented on John Adams visionary leadership. He never seems to have had tunnel vision during the fight for independence. Adams warned of becoming too dependent on France while fighting for freedom from the British, during the same time many Americans were ready to essentially trade George III for Louis the XVI as their ruler. Adams saw what France was trying to do with America and always kept America’s interests first. Seeing the bigger picture is a trait that leaders must possess if they are going to be successful in the long-run.
12. He was a true servant- The public career of John Adams can be described as nothing other than service beyond self. He and Abigail spent much of their marriage apart from each other because they both recognized the part that he was to play in the formation of the United States. He gave his time, his education, and his health to the cause of liberty. He never sought power, once writing in his diary that he was no Caesar. He would have much preferred to be a Boston Lawyer and then settle down as a farmer in his hometown of Braintree. But Adams believed in something bigger – he literally gave his life so that every American might have the freedom and liberty to live the life we choose.

If only we could find leaders like John Adams today. Men of integrity, good reputations, and who love the United States.

 

"GOD BLESS AMERICA"

Spring Is Coming!!!!

Spring is coming!

Without winter, there can be no spring. Without mistakes, there can be no learning.

 Without doubts, there can be no faith Without fears, there can be no courage.

My mistakes, my fears, and my doubts are my path to wisdom

-Author Unknown

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy Birthday, Mom!!

March 2, 2016.

My mother would have been 91 years old today. Twenty years ago on her 71st Birthday she had a massive stroke. She passed away the next morning.

I know I don't write many posts about my mother. But I do know, she's in Heaven. I know there was a time that she accepted Jesus as her savior.

My mother, Stella Burris, was born on March 2, 1925. She was the third of eight children.

She grew up in Paducah, Kentucky during the depression. I remember her telling me stories of the 1937 Great Ohio River Flood.

It was in January.  Her dad was in Indiana at the time, working. A boat had to come to their house to rescue them and take them to a local high school where a shelter was set up. She said her mom had the family put on as many layers of clothes that they could before they left the house. My mom said it was so cold, that her hands froze to a carton of milk she was carrying. It was a while before they could move back home. My mom remembered their house being full of mud from the flood waters.

1937 Flood in Paducah, Kentucky

My mother and her family had it better during the depression than a lot of people. Her dad had a job working for the electric company.

Later my mom and her family moved to Evansville, Indiana, where she met and married my dad.

I always believe my mom had a premonition  that something was going to happen. The Tuesday before her Birthday, I had visited her and took her a Birthday present and some flowers. I remember her saying, "I always tell people, if they don't give me flowers before I die, not to give me flowers at my funeral." Also, she wanted me to help her make out a will. The day before she had gotten out insurance policies and gone over them. It was very strange.

I have missed having a mom these past 20 years. I wish she could have seen all of her great grand children and to see what great young men my sons have become.

My mother was a very hospitable person. You never went to her house without her feeding you something or giving you something.

My mother wasn't a perfect mother. None of us are. I believe she did the best she could and with what she knew. I love my mom and I'm happy that one day I'll get to see her again.